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Category: Relationships

Life, Love, Debt, and Positive Vibes

So…. been a hot effing minute since my last post…. and to say a shit ton has happened may be the understatement of the year. I am having a baby and just bought a beautiful new home. Ok no… not quite. But I’ve basically been…

Letting Go of Negative People

A few months ago I talked about an ex boyfriend reaching out to me. Not just an ex… more like the The Ex. The one that broke me. The one that took over a year to recover from. The one that I never really thought I would get over…

Mid-Thirties, Single, and Why It’s OK

I live in the South. Land of fried chicken, sweet tea, and SEC football. Where people are raised saying “yes ma’am” and “no sir”. Where people are usually pretty friendly and there’s at least one neighborhood BBQ a year. But there&#8217…

Going Down the Rabbit Hole…

A few weeks ago, I got a text message. Then an email. A blast from the past one might say. The ex boyfriend that completely shattered my heart, sent me into a mild depression, and made me take a much needed 16 months to heal, regroup and have a complete…

A Love Letter to Things I Miss

Dear Pedis, Manis, and especially Botox, Its been a few months since we’ve spent time together. I haven’t forgotten about any of you. This break we are taking… It’s tearing me apart. I think of you always. Every time I look in the mirror I’m reminded…

Dating: Why You’ve Got to Listen to What He Says

The dating world is rough. The highs and the lows are like being on a roller-coaster most of the time. I personally don’t usually have much fun doing it. I hate games. I hate the not knowing. I hate having to deal with all the pettiness of it…

How a Princess Got in Debt… Twice

So before I get too far into my blogging adventures, I should probably share a little bit about how I found myself in this situation. You see, this isn’t the first time I’ve been in massive debt. About 8 years ago, I was in the exact same place…

Why Bachelorette JoJo Won’t Find Love

So I find myself this summer engaged in a show that I have always thought was an absolute waste of time to watch: The Bachelorette. I think so poorly of this show that I would rather watch Kardashian marathons all day than partake in watching people compete over one person…

2nd Jobs or Secret Lives

So in a quest to get my money under control as quickly as possible, I have made a rather necessary decision: I need a second job. The problem is I don’t have time for a true second job. I have a full time job in Corporate America. I…